She is always a bundle of joy but after I got to know her personally, I realised she somehow felt trapped in her relationship with her then-boyfriend. After some coaxing, she finally shared with me what was bothering her – after some 5 years of courtship, he finally proposed marriage but she is having second thoughts and wondered if he is the right man for her!
Sharifah is a beautiful lady – one with inner beauty and outer grace and I really hate to see her struggling with her relationship. So I offered to do her relationship profiling for her using my Family-of-Origin profiling tool which I learned while I was pursuing my Matchmaking Certification in New York City in 2007.
Going to the core of the matter
Doing the Family-of-Origin profiling required Sharifah to access her childhood memories at the time she was under the age of 10 years old. It took some prompting, but finally through the 8 simple guiding questions I drew out the reasons of Sharifah’s love relationship patterns within the 1 hour session.
The behaviour and interactions of her caregivers were like a movie on loop playing non-stop during her informative years and soon these memories were strongly edged in her sub-conscious.
The big revelation
With the profiling done, Sharifah finally realised the patterns she has been displaying – She is attracted to flamboyant men like her dad and attracting men like her strong silent grandfather because of the sub-conscious vibes she is sending out through the behaviour and traits she carries which are those of her grandmother and mum.
After the profiling, Sharifah shared that her ex-husband was just like her dad. Loud & flamboyant and that was what attracted her but the marriage broke because of these very traits and behaviour. Her then-boyfriend was the direct opposite – strong, silent type. Promising her a steady roof over her head and warmth of a home if they were to be married – something any woman would want.
But that was not what Sharifah wanted in a relationship and she thought something was wrong with her to reject such a nice man – not until she did the profiling that she realised that she needs a man who encompasses both the traits of her flamboyant dad and strong silent grandfather!
At the time of writing this blog, Sharifah is happily in a relationship with an amazing guy; one who truly embodies the traits of her dad and her grand-dad! I have met him and so I know!
I was a little hesitant to do the profiling when Annie offered to me. I had the usual anxiety of “better not to know”. But I figured I have nothing to lose so I finally agreed to it. It blew my mind but it also offered me such clarity of my love relationship that it helped me attract the current love of my life! I honestly think everyone out there who wants clarity in their love relationship must speak to Annie and get their profiling done. You have nothing to lose but everything to gain!
Special thanks to Sharifah Fazzeleen for giving me her permission to share her story and pictures.
Sharifah is a proud owner of an organic boutique spa Flare Wellness and more recently has ventured into fashion designing under the brand Sharifah Fazzeleen Haute Couture.